e-Forward

A compilation of selected e-mails and messages circulating around the globe.

My Photo
Name:
Location: California, United States

Hey guys! I'm Carms - Just an ordinary woman who loves everything about beauty--makeup, fashion, decors, organization, cooking and family. I believe there's always beauty in everything. I'd like to share my passion with you thru this blog.

Monday, November 29, 2004

Freedom of Simplicity

Happiness is not found outside of you.
It doesn't come from cars, clothes, cash, or Caribbean cruises.

Happiness is found within. But how can you find it if you don't have thesimplicity of time and space to discover the most important things in your life?

How can you search the depths of your soul if you are too busy impressingothers, acquiring wealth, protecting your properties, and paying your debts?

Simplicity is not about the external either: living in a doghouse,
eating in Hepatitis joints, wearing rags.

Let me define what it is: Simplicity is living from the core of your being.

A TREASURE MAP OF HAPPINESS

Simplicity will point to you where and what and who the gold is in your life. Let me share with you the seven powerful lessons I've learned on simple living:

LIVE ON LESS, AND DELIGHT IN THEM MORE

Some take their pleasure dining in classy restaurants, trips to Europe,
and owning the latest home theatre-equipment.

I've chosen the simple path: If I can simply be with my wife, or take aquiet stroll under a canopy of stars, or play with a child, or read a goodbook in my home, or laugh with friends over a pizza,
I consider myself richly blessed.

Focus on what you have and not on what you don't have.

STOP RUNNING AND WALK INSTEAD

Here's the truth: The person who has covered the greatest distance
does NOT win, but the one who has most enjoyed the journey does.
Stop running around chasing your own tail!

Get off your hurried pace and learn to breathe. Replace doing with being.Learn to say no to invitations, appointments, and commitments, activitiesand events that will rob you of your focus. Learn to say "yes "to rest, to tranquillity, to quietness.

YOU ARE MORE THAN YOUR WEALTH

I own very few things today. Because I am more than the brand of my watch,the logo of my shoes, the name of my car.

I believe that if in my soul I deeply respect and value myself,
people around me will sense that, and they too, will value and respect me -
whether I'm wearing Armani or not.

You are more than your wealth.

AVOID BUYING ON CREDIT

I don't believe in borrowing from credit cards. (For convenience, I useone card but I pay the whole amount at the end of each month.)
If I need something really bad, I save up for it.

Sometimes, at midpoint, I realize I don't really need the darn thing andgive up the whole idea. The only exception I feel we should enter into acredit is when buying a non-depreciating item, such as housing or land.

I believe we should always live within our earning capacity.

Proverbs 22:7 says, "Those who borrow are slaves of moneylenders."

GIVE AS MUCH AS YOU CAN

If I content myself with P250 shirt instead of P4,000 Lacoste,
I can help others more. Trust me, there is immense pleasure!

You will find that the empty thrill of owning a diamond ring on your fingerpales in comparison to the joy of handling a piece of bread to an orphan child.